Love is...

asking about someone's day and truly caring about the answer.
being patient, even when you're tired_especially when you're tired.
writing a note of encouragement.
buying someone flowers for no reason.
caring_even when it's hard and you don't feel like it.
trusting in someone even when you're scared.
saying you're sorry when you are wrong.
praying for someone.
forgiving someone again n again.
providing a shoulder to cry on.
holding your tongue.
what God does to us.

Do Less

Do less thinking,
and pay more attention to your heart.
Do less acquiring,
and pay more attention to what you already have.
Do less complaining,
and pay more attention to giving.
Do less controlling,
and pay more attention to letting go.
Do less criticizing,
and pay more attention to complimenting.
Do less running around,
and pay more attention to stillness.
Do less talking,
and pay more attention to silence.

P.S. We should stop thinkging about profit and loss, but rather listen to what's really wanted by our heart.
We should not only focus on getting new things, and careless to what we already have. Then regret when we lost them.
We should stop keep controlling, but better let it go, and forgive all or forget everythings.

We All Need...

to be loved....when lonely.
to be protected...when afraid.
to be comforted...when hurting.
to be fed...when hungry.
to be taught...when confused.
to be encouraged...when downhearted.
to be filled...when empty.
to be heard...when crying.
to be found...when lost.
to be given hope...when all seems dark.

The Greatest Things

The best day, today.
The greatest puzzle, life.
The greatest thought, God.
The greatest mystery, death.
The best work, work you like.
The most ridiculous asset, pride.
The greatest need, common sense.
The most expensive indulgence, hate.
The most disagreeable person, the complainer.
The best teacher, the one who makes you want to learn.
The greatest deceiver, the one who deceives himself.
The worst bankruptcy, the soul who has lost enthusiasm.
The cheapest, easiest, and most stupid thing to do, finding fault.
The greatest comfort, the knowledge the you have done your work well.
The most agreeable companion, the one who would not have you any different than you are.
The meanest feeling, being envious of another's success.
The greatest thing in the world, love-for family, home, friends, neighbors.

What money can and cannot buy

A bed but not sleep.
Books but not brains.
Food but not appetite.
Finery but not beauty.
A house but not a home.
Medicine but not health.
Luxuries but not culture.
Amusements but not happiness.
Companions but not friends.
Flattery but not respect.

Nagis

Nagis?

Never hear it b4,

It came silently out of the blue

And took all away_

Grandparents, parents, babies, cows, dogs, cats, …

They didn’t have time to cry

(really we r a silence nation

Ppl have silenced for age)

That night we were more silent than usual;

Bcoz our mouths were full with water n mud.

Now even seeing a flying bird,

Ppl r happy_

Coz it looks like an aeroplane.

Will it drop any food for us?

I heard that generals r going to give foods.

No, what they give is a piece of paper to vote instead of biscuit to eat.

No biscuit?

No, no biscuit at all.

Crazy? How can we vote with empty stomachs?

It’s not crazy, it’s absolutely completely heartless.

Yes, this is Myanmar, ruled by than shwe.

If You Are Going To Fight....

Fight for the relationship.......................................not against it.
Fight for reconciliation...........................................not for alienation.
Fight to preserve the relationship.......................not to destroy it.
Fight to win your spouse.......................................not to lose him/her.
Fight to save your marriage.................................not to cash it in.
Fight to solve the problem....................................not to salve your ego.
If you are going to fight, fight to win....................not to lose!!!

Destiny

Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character.
Watch your character; it become your destiny.

Choose To

Choose to love.....................rather than hate.
Choose to smile...................rather than frown.
Choose to build....................rather than destroy.
Choose to persevere...........rather than quit.
Choose to praise..................rather than gossip.
Choose to heal......................rather than wound.
Choose to give......................rather than grasp.
Choose to act........................rather than delay.
Choose to forgive.................rather than curse.
Choose to pray.....................rather than despair.

Be Good To You

Be yourself...........................truthfully.
Accept yourself...................gratefully.
Value yourself.....................joyfully.
Forgive yourself.................completely.
Treat yourself.....................generously.
Balance yourself.................harmoniously.
Bless yourself......................abundantly.
Trust yourself.....................confidently.
Love yourself......................wholeheartedly.
Empower yourself..............prayerfully.
Give yourself.......................enthusiastically.
Express yourself.................radiantly.

Words

the six most important words: " i admit i made a mistake."
the five most important words: "you did a good job."
the four most important words: "what is your opinion?"
the three most important words: "if you please."
the two most important words: "thank you."
the one most important word: "we"
the least important word: " I ".

True Understanding

We Do Not Understand:
Joy............until we face sorrow.
Faith.........until it is tested.
Peace........until faced with conflict.
Trust........until we are betrayed.
Love.........until it is lost.
Hope.........until confronted with doubts.

Fear...??

Listen to your fear
with a wise ear.
What are you afraid of in life??
What are you afraid of in yourself??
You must challange fear
and ask it what it means to say.

What we should count in our Life...???

Count our blessings instead of our crosses.
Count our gains instead of our losses.
Count our joys instead of our woes.
Count our friends instead of our foes.
Count our smiles instead of our tears.
Count our courage instead of our fears.
Count our kind deeds instead of our mean.
Count our health instead of our wealth.
Count our neighbour as much as ourself.

Rules for Being Human

1. You will receive a body.
You may like it or hate it, but it will be yours for the entire period of this time around.
2. You will lean lessons.
You are enrolled in a full time informal school called "Life".
Each day in this school you will have the oppotunity to learn lessons.
You may like the lessons or think them irrelavant or stupid.
3. There are no mistakes, only lessons.
Growth is a process of trial and error, experimentation.
The failed experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiments that ultimately works.
In the long ran we get what we deserve.
4. A lesson is repeated until learned.
A lesson will be presented to you in various forms until you have learned it.
When you have learned it, you can then go on to the next lesson.
5. Learning lessons does not end.
There is no part of life that does not contain its lessons.
If you are alive there are lessons to be learned.
6. "There" is no better than "here".
A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.
When your "ther" has become a "here", you will simply obtain another "there" that will again look better than the "here".
7. Other are merely mirrors of you.
8. What you make your life is up to you.
You have all the tools and resources you need.
What you do with them is up to you. The choice is yours.
9. Your answers lie inside you. The answers to your life's questions lie inside you.
All you need to do is look, listen and trust.